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Dù yêu Tây hay Ta thì ban luôn nhớ đừng đánh mất chính mình nha bạn. We have a really strong culture so it is really hard to change. However in a relationship, we can compromise on certain aspects. Food and language we can learn to adapt. But we can’t lose our core values. Vietnamese women are well known for their strong family orientation and respectable manners. So we should be really proud of ourselves and should let them Tay know that it does take some efforts before they can sleep with us. Just don't be too easy with him! I used to study in America and have dated some white men, I kinda understand what it's like to date a Western man. Chị biết rằng tất cả mọi đàn ông trên thế giới đều có nhu cầu giống nhau đó là sex. Tất nhiên ta không thể stereotype toàn tập tất cả đàn ông Mỹ đều cần phải có sex trong 1 mối quan hệ. Điều này là tùy thuộc vào nhu cầu của 2 phía. I think it is imperative that you discuss your rules upfront with him before you start thinking about dating him. If he respects you, he should learn about you as a person first before he thinks about having sex with you. Love comes from the heart while sex only comes from temporary lust. Some Christian people are pretty strict about the sex-before-marriage matter because according to the Bible, marriage is the "cure" for sexual immorality and that people should get married if they have sex with each other so they can fulfill their passion in a moral way. If you really like this guy, you do really need to let him chase after you by not being too easy to content with every of his request, especially sex. Guys who require sex with you after the first day you have met are just jerks and it is not really consistent with our cultural values. If you want to date a foreigner, it is important that you guys reach a commonality where you both agree to do something and not to do certain things based on each of your own cultural values. Hope it helps!
07:32 CH 23/05/2013
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